Takeaway and blanket fort
After bedtime, the best rest you'll get all week.
Babysitter or not, these ideas are realistic for tired parents, and some include the kids.
For parents, the most realistic date nights happen after bedtime: a takeaway and film in a blanket fort, a two-player game, a cook-together dinner. For family date nights with kids, try build-your-own pizza, a living-room campout, family trivia or a picnic in the park. Swap babysitting with friends for a free night out.
After bedtime, the best rest you'll get all week.
Trade free nights with another family.
Meet for lunch while the kids are at school or nursery.
Quick games that work when you're tired.
Baby monitor, two chairs, fairy lights.
Everyone builds their own.
Tent, torches and stories.
Kids' questions vs adults' questions. Kids' Christmas trivia.
Frisbee, sandwiches and ice cream.
Kitchen disco with everyone's songs.
Cookies or cupcakes with decorating.
Print a 'cinema' menu and tickets.
A list of things to find on a walk.
5pm reservations work with bedtimes.
Weekend treat when the kids sleep in (eventually).
Schedule it after bedtime, swap babysitting with friends, or take a lunch date while the kids are at school.