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Date Night Ideas for Parents and Families

Babysitter or not, these ideas are realistic for tired parents, and some include the kids.

Updated · 15 ideas· 6 min read·

Quick answer

For parents, the most realistic date nights happen after bedtime: a takeaway and film in a blanket fort, a two-player game, a cook-together dinner. For family date nights with kids, try build-your-own pizza, a living-room campout, family trivia or a picnic in the park. Swap babysitting with friends for a free night out.

Idea 1

Takeaway and blanket fort

After bedtime, the best rest you'll get all week.

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Idea 2

Babysitting swap

Trade free nights with another family.

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Idea 3

Lunch date

Meet for lunch while the kids are at school or nursery.

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Idea 4

Two-player game night

Quick games that work when you're tired.

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Idea 5

Garden drinks

Baby monitor, two chairs, fairy lights.

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Idea 6

Family pizza night

Everyone builds their own.

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Idea 7

Living room campout

Tent, torches and stories.

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Idea 9

Picnic in the park

Frisbee, sandwiches and ice cream.

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Idea 10

Family dance party

Kitchen disco with everyone's songs.

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Idea 11

Bake together

Cookies or cupcakes with decorating.

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Idea 12

Movie night with a menu

Print a 'cinema' menu and tickets.

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Idea 13

Nature scavenger hunt

A list of things to find on a walk.

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Idea 14

Early dinner out

5pm reservations work with bedtimes.

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Idea 15

Couple's breakfast in bed

Weekend treat when the kids sleep in (eventually).

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Frequently asked questions

How do parents find time for date night?

Schedule it after bedtime, swap babysitting with friends, or take a lunch date while the kids are at school.

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